So here I am on my third day of mindfulness with the Meh Activity Book.
Today’s mindfulness activity: Balloons.
In the activity book, there are a few pages that talk about how you can use a balloon to address your negative thoughts about yourself and replace them with other thoughts. This can be done by writing your thoughts in the drawn balloon on the worksheet, but I decided to use real balloons for two reasons: 1) we already had some on hand and 2) balloons are fun.
As a lot of women (and men) do, I often dislike the way I look and have negative thoughts about my body. So that was the first negative thought I decided to address. I thought of the negative thought as I blew up my yellow balloon. Then I held the balloon and thought of a more reasonable thought to replace that one. My new thought was: “I am trying to eat healthy and be more active, and I do not need to look like a supermodel to look good. I am healthy and strong.” Then I let the balloon and the negative thought go.
I tried these with other thoughts related to my ability to do my best in my new job or my fear that I will never be able to know everything about my research area. And even though they were only balloons, my heart was a little lighter afterwards.
This particular activity is one that Deborah Malcolm, author of Meh, has used in presentations about her book. I hope it’s something you’ll all try out for yourselves!